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So a few seconds later she goes into “You know that Joe, my boyfriend… yada yada” – almost like she is unconsciously, desperately trying to keep herself from telling herself “don’t go there” with me, and she reflexively brings up the boyfriend. So this is why I’m not interpreting it as LJBF – instead the opposite
Be interested in hearing how to work this “one boyfriend type”. I was kind of surprised for you to say this type of girl is the KING of cheaters.. lol
on January 6, 2013 at 5:01 pm
Your read of the situ and why she brings up her BF is dead on.
If you want to bang her, all you have to do is remove the thing that’s triggering her ASD, which is the guilt of cheating on her BF, a guilt that’s created by a fear of judgement. If you remove her fear of judgement, you remove the guilt, which stops triggering the ASD.
The simplest way people remove the fear of judgement is to get drunk lol sober you put on a front around your co-workers, till the Xmas office party where you’re hammered and wearing a lampshade on your head because in that moment your fear of judgement is gone/impaired.
Another way to remove judgement is thru comfort/rapport. When someone is in or has been in the same situation as you and understands your feelings and demonstrates that they’ve made the same choices/mistakes/etc too, you don’t feel like you’ll be judged because they’ve been there themselves. I actually found that having a primary girlfriend makes it easier to get girls to cheat on their BFs because they know I won’t judge them for it since I’m doing it too.
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So a few seconds later she goes into “You know that Joe, my boyfriend… yada yada” – almost like she is unconsciously, desperately trying to keep herself from telling herself “don’t go there” with me, and she reflexively brings up the boyfriend. So this is why I’m not interpreting it as LJBF – instead the opposite
Be interested in hearing how to work this “one boyfriend type”. I was kind of surprised for you to say this type of girl is the KING of cheaters.. lol
on January 6, 2013 at 5:01 pm
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Your read of the situ and why she brings up her BF is dead on.
If you want to bang her, all you have to do is remove the thing that’s triggering her ASD, which is the guilt of cheating on her BF, a guilt that’s created by a fear of judgement. If you remove her fear of judgement, you remove the guilt, which stops triggering the ASD.
The simplest way people remove the fear of judgement is to get drunk lol sober you put on a front around your co-workers, till the Xmas office party where you’re hammered and wearing a lampshade on your head because in that moment your fear of judgement is gone/impaired.
Another way to remove judgement is thru comfort/rapport. When someone is in or has been in the same situation as you and understands your feelings and demonstrates that they’ve made the same choices/mistakes/etc too, you don’t feel like you’ll be judged because they’ve been there themselves. I actually found that having a primary girlfriend makes it easier to get girls to cheat on their BFs because they know I won’t judge them for it since I’m doing it too.